I totally get that. My daughter and I stopped travelling home for the holidays and I don't so the whole big dinner thing any more only to exhaust myself and have to work on Friday.

We watch movies, sleep late, go out with the dog (wr went skating this year) and either get delivery or something simple. One pan dinner. This year it was roasted fish, brussel sprouts, fries, and grapes.

It was a good day. Quiet.

And I dont know ANYONE who did the whole big family shebang this year. There's no point.