I think so too. This is the danger of dating white men. They come off all benign and slowly ensnare you. Then you’re dead and it’s your fault because you ignored “red flags" and he’s such a nice guy he would never have done such a thing without reason.

There’s a subset of men who WILL harm women given any chance. Different races may go about it in different ways, but the underlying dynamic is always the same.

We all need to be careful out there. Don’t trust blindly. Make them earn it. Vet vet vet. Then vet some more. Take it slow.

Good article. You had some very interesting observations here. I wish you the best finding a suitable partner for yourself. I’m very glad to see some more of the walls of racism coming down. It’s about time.