I think it will be a mix for me. I won't risk what might become a sacrifice of or to Urchling to save someone else who should have known better and definitely could have been doing better.

I think I'll have a policy of help once, maybe twice, but if you don't start pulling your own weight after that, I won't risk lessening our chances to carry your dead weight.

I think ultimately for most of us, especially those with children, it will depens on how long we can afford to keep paying for the hubris of deniers.