I suggest women continue doing what they're doing in unpacking how gender roles affect them and making changes. I suggest the combat this new rise in toxic femininity that's part of the whole thing.
My ultimate point is that women cannot make men not fall into toxic masculinity. In the end, all they can do is learn about it, reject it, and try to protect their sons from it.
But everyone's mind is their own. One person cannot control what another person chooses to believe. We are talking about a set of deeply held beliefs here.
Women cannot make men reject these beliefs that are leading them to suicide and poor life outcomes. It's inside the man's mind. Ergo, the man has to be the one to let it go l, protect his mind from being furthrr propagandized, and develop a new framework for how he can better engage with the world.