I regard objectification as inappropriate behavior.
Men cannot claim they don't understand the rules and then balk at being given the lessons, the chance to learn, as though they're being punished. This is an opportunity, not a punishment and not a predation on men.
Yes, I think basics are pretty clear. Personally, I don't buy the excuse of not understanding what's okay and what's not. For the most part, I think knits a cop put. But here we are.
We're all accountable for the direction society goes. We all exist as individuals, as part of a family, as groups, ad parts of organizational entities, and as part of society as a whole. Most obvious way to hold yourself accountable on a societal level is being mindful and prudent with your vote and where you put your money. Who do you back with those things? Also being the good Samaritan when and how you can. How you live your life, and what you stand for.
I don't know why men always land on some desexuamized theme here. No. I'm not saying never look at a woman.
But why is the goal of expressing your "afmiration" to creep us out? It didn't used to be. I'm old enough to remember. Why do men have to present themselves in public like they're gonna snap and go off thr rails at any moment? Why so aggressively and manipulatively?
I've said it before, I'll say it again. Women notice men all the time. But we don't intrude on your lives and make embarrassing displays in public about it. Most of the time, you don't even notice.
We don't need or want to know if you find us attractive either. Why can't you just make a quiet, normal, but subtle observation and go about your day? Why do you have to make us feel like we're under imminent attack every time you look at us? How is that supposed to admiration or a compliment.
Why can't men tone the looks down to something less aggressive and more moderate? Why not ditch the performance "barely contained raging beast monster", as Jordan Peterson puts it, and return to being more performstively open and friendly?
People want to talk about evolutionary psychology all the time ans how it hard wires the sexes. Most of the time, it's bullshit. But how about this? All animals are evolved to interpret certain acts and behaviors as hostile and others as friendly. We're evolved to read body language in other words.
If you want to be successful with women then, or be perceived as being non-threatening, doesn't it make sense to present yourself as such? Can't you see how that's the reason the alpha ideology doesn't work? It's to signal yourself as a potential threat to other men. It doesn't work in dating or any other male/female interactions because you don't want women to see you as a threat.
We'll avoid the helll out of you, every time.
