I mostly agree with you. I think more of us are unsuited for marriage or don't REALLY want it, were happier solo, than we've been led to believe.

And I get your frustration here, I do.

But you're ignoring the fact that this goes both ways. What do you suppose it says to women constantly seeing men fawn over sociopaths who would happily see women enslaved under coverture laws again because they're rich, the blatant misogyny coming from the keystrokes and webcams of men, the threats of rape and murder if you say something they won't like, the dismissal, the digging, all the ways to manipulate women for sex, where to get Rhohypnol to drug and rape us, etc.

It's been very clear for a very long time, since social media really started taking off and before, what men really think of women.

Ultimately, an old adage comes into play. What's good for the goose....??

The rules of treatment and engagement you set for yourselves in how you men treat women will eventually get reflected back at you in some capacity.

Hiding behind the anonymity of the internet you've made it okay to malign, berate, slander, mock, degrade, threaten, coerce, manipulate, harass, stalk, and hate on women.

What are you seeing from women now? Some of that same derision and scorn? Are you really that surprised?

It's not healthy to love someone who hates you. You're seeing the dawning of this realization within women.