I made it clear that it was just observation and speculation.

Not did I suggest that one gender was better than another or more capable of having a healthy relationship. That's bullshit.

That said, it can't be denied that certain dynamics within certain faith practices and fundamentalist beliefs have done a number on women who grew up in them that affecting and negatively impacting their adult relationships. Evangical purity culture is another example. Listen to what they're saying, the Ex-vangelicals and LGBTQ from those homes are saying. There's some common threads there.

Ultimately, it comes down to you can't use lesbians as proof of a certain belief, "bitches be crazy" and then just dismiss certain dynamics they face that other groups do not. Like procreation pressure. Homophobia. Sexual shame attached to the female body.

If you do, you're not proving anything. You're just showing off your bigotry.