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2 min readMay 20, 2024

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I love how you equate that with casual man-bashing when it's really just an effect of gender essentialiat bullshit.

We were already talking about how there's no difference, it just plays out differently in dating due to those dynamics.

Also, I never said women didn't have ego foilbles as well. They most certainly do.

But we were talking about your friend's claim that she could get dates and sex with women as a man easily.

You disagred. We then had this exchange about how it depends upon the exact specifics of what you get to keep and what you get to leave behind.

We're still talking about specifically just getting dates as a man with a woman's skillset. Nothing more.

And yeah. Istand by wbat I said. And I'll tell you why. Men, over the last few decades, have allowed their egos and Influencers to convince them that getting sexed is a numbers game and the best way to "win" this game is to hit women up like sex vending machines. Once you hit the right button combo of all these tactics, like negging, coercion, etc then the legs will pop open and the sex will haopen and you're one head higher on the totem pole to ultimate manliness.

If that's not an overly inflated and self centered ego, my guy, then I eagerly await your instruction on what is. Again, in regards to the specific scenario we were talking about, because my comment was related only to that.

Most women are desperate for anything outside these middle school games men are playing. If your friend got magically booped into a man but maintained her feminine experience and perspective, she's going to see other women as human beings rather than sex vending machines, resources, sex toys in a meat suit, what have you. That alone will advantage herhim over 90% of hergis male peers, at least.

Then you get into flirting. It's a no brainer. Broad ateokes, men don't even recognize when women are flirting with them galf the time. They used to, but it's become a lost skill set.

Even being able to carry on a conversation is beyond the skillsets of the average guy these days.

Women don't have the hangups with rejection that men do because we know it so much better in more forms and because we don't tie our self worth to whether or not we get picked (most of us).

You should have a talk with some lesbians about how the bar is so freaking low for cishet men and the shock they so many can still not meet it.

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