I know you do (identify as a misandrist) but I think there can be some overlap here without one undermining the other.
Like, feminism is about equality politically and socially. It gives all persons the same right to vote, access to financial institutions, rights to an education, right to a career, and so forth and so on. Does being a misandrist prevent you from being for and supporting those ideals? Would it if men were the oppressed class?
Socially speaking, feminism generally means equality too. Freedom to dress as you please, freedom to go where you please, freedom to do any activity you please, etc without social censure or stricture. Does hating men prevent you from believing in and working for that world? Would you still believe the same if men were the oppressed class?
So, some overlap. I can see how your desire to not be used in this instance and in this manner is an expression of both feminist ideology and your own personal misandry.
Besides, it’s hard not to tend toward misandry these days when so many of them have completely lost their damn minds.