I have noticed that and no, it's not fair to the child.

Boy or girl, you're depriving them of your presence right when they're fledging and need you in a specific way most while simultaneously shackling them into elder care before most of thrm have fully fledged yet.

And these same men will attempt to shame women for not wanting their babies as if that's some sort of moral failing of selfishness on the women's part.

The lack of self awareness of these men is palpable.

They need to stop flapping their jaws as though they have something worthy to say and try to make themselves useful. Those Depends coupons are not going to clip themselves.