I have no interest in changing men. I just don't want to be blamed for their failures and feelings and hardships because I'm a woman and because I advocate for other women.

That's not the same thing. Not the same thing at all.

Women are not obligated to date men they don't find desirable. It is not the job of women to teach men how to be desirable. They're not infants or children. They're capable of figuring it out, they just don't want too.

That's their choice, but it's not my job in life to protect them from the consequences of it.

Yes, women choose men; but men choose women too. That goes both ways.

No, an unattractive woman will still have men willing to have sex with her. But sex doesn't equal a relationship does it? Unattractive men just get rejected all around. It hurts, but it's arguable as to whether or not it's more emotionally damaging that being dehumanized and used for sex. Frankly, neither one of these things is good or healthy. It's a shame there is so much warped emphasis on physical attraction in our society. It harms all of us.

The fact of the matter is, men are not trying. Think what you want, but if you compare the time and investment men made in thr past to find a partner to today, it's clear they're not willing to invest. They want what they don't value to be handed to them in a silver platter.

Men who invest in social skills, who learn how to be companionable, who learn how to pleasure a woman, who expand their life experience, learn to have a conversation, work on building and maintaining a character of integrity, etc don't have a hard time finding a date or a partner. A lot of really successful guys don't make 6 figures and don't have a great figure.

They're just average guys.

But an average guy who shows up is going to do far better, far more often, than any Adonis who can't be bothered to show up and still expects his desires to be catered to.

It is not the fault of women, single mothers, or feminists that men stopped showing up and embraced bro culture.

They cut their noses off to spite their face.

Thank God that although bro culture is incredibly loud and annoying, it's not as widespread as they would have us believe. The big concern here for most is that it will become more mainstream because e it's being promoted so much and getting so much attention.

For now though, there are plenty of decent guys out there.