I got distracted by the dog and forgot what I was going to say about asking out a man.

Feminism means you're free of proacribed gender roles. If you want a traditional family you can start asking men out on dates. Lot of guys would love that. Find one you like and ask him to marry you.

Problem solved.

You dont have to advocate for a course odnactiom that would strip motherhood away from the many who have gotten there solely thanks to feminism and other human rights efforts and would have been denied the chance otherwise.