I doubt it. I had my child a few days before I turned 34. I can confirm everything these young ladies are saying.

It's isolating, there's no help, everything that made you you has to be put on the back burner or straight up sacrificed to being a caretaker. The more chikdren you have, the worse it gets. The day to day becomes drudgery a lot of the time for many. For others, the drudgery doesn't start until school does (this one was me).

I think you're just more likely to see young womn talking about it on TikTok because the algorithm tends to favor their content, the platform apprals to the young more so they have more young creators, etc.

But no. Broad spectrum, this harsh truth is cominy out from most mothers. Most feel like they've been lied to. You thought there would be a societal return for motherhood. There's not. You're infantalized, disregarded, mocked and shamed sometimes, and neglected. You'll be blamed for every societal I'll too; let's not forget that.

That's what motherbood is looking like in this century. If you follow the societal script.