I don't think that's going to be possible though. A lot of these guys ARE going to be left behind. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink. The culture of masculinity has become like a cult. It will break and return more toward normal and balanced, but name me one cult where everyone has walked away alive and unscathed?

Same thing. It's sad, but it's like that movie The Guardian. You cannot save someone from drowning by allowing them to drown you or drown their wife (first scene movie reference) while panic fleeing danger they brought on themselves.

They're not all going to make it. In fact, there are ongoing losses. And seeing that (we know because they bitch and moan about it all the time) they're still heading out into those same "stormy seas" they've got no business being in because of the siren call of cultish Masculinity culture.