I don't think she's trying to change it. A dandy is always going to be a dandy. There will always be men who are like this.

It's pointless to try to change them.

But.

Maybe, just maybe it's possible to get people to think about what they're idolizing and why. Then maybe they wouldn't.

Let's face it. The only reason these guys are such a burr in everyone's saddle is because of the idolatry so many foolish people lay at their feet.