I don't really see a problem here. Isn't this just histrionics? I mean, if women being afraid men will kill them is histrionics and statistically not likely enough to warrant men take an active interest in their very real feelings of fear around dating....

Shouldn't we demand that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander?

Isn't their irrational fear that their feelings might be hurt by rejection just a them problem? Histrionics and conflatre hype outside the scope of reality.