I don't know....you picked some pretty good ones.

Probably some of the ones that have to do with patience like, "there's a season for everything" because they're so often used as a gaslight to deny people things they've earned or make them work harder for it than someone else.

Or maybe some of the ones like "you'll catch more flies with sugar than vinegar" which are clearly meant and used to tone police and modify behavior, again toward only certain groups.