I didn't say you were evil. You think you're evil, that's your business but stop projecting that bullshit onto me.

I think your choices of where to put your empathy, how, and to what extent are decidedly one sided and ultimately harmful.

The way you go about it makes a choice as to whose pain and suffering matters and whose doesn't. It never falls in a woman's favor. There's zero reciprocity or mutuality to it.

That doesn't make you evil, it makes you like a whole lot of guys who are being shunned and disregarded now.

Social bonds break down when they are purely transactional in nature and when they decidedly one sided.

I think your empathy is dangerous and damaging on a large scale. It's harmful to the men you empathize with, the women you don't, and to yourself.

These men would be much better served to have someone empathize with them enough to tell them to get the chip off their shoulders and grow up. Pandering to them is more about picking at your own festering woundedness. It's not really about them at all.