I didn't say how something is used isn't important.

I said it's problematic to conflate how something is used with what's it's purpose is as though they are the same thing. They are not.

I'll refer you back to the garden how and baseball bat examples. Scissors might be another good one. Or, maybe I'll chuck a biscuit at your head until you accept the point and stop conflating just to provide cover for a murderer.