I agree with that, but it doesn’t negate the fact that that’s not a reality for all women. Many women grow up in circumstances where they never had a chance. They’ve been beaten down and used since the day they were born. They need more help than victim blaming to make that change. They need someone to help them through and stand by them till they can stand on their own.

It’s not a one size fits all sort of scenario. Treating it like it is, doesn’t fix the problem.