I agree with Sanni too. The only bitter cat lady I know of is actually young. She's a pickmeisha on TikTok who's an evangical MRA ally. She bashes her fellow women for being too independent and not submitting to men. She says feminists make bad wives, even though marriages with feminists tend to last longer and are happier and more stable overall than traditional marriages.

She was filming a rant while walking through her garage one day and paused to remark about all the cats in there. There were 9 in plain view at that moment, but more off camera and the walls were lined with litter box after litter box after litter box.

I thought, "that explains some things".

Then Urchling came to see what I was cooking for dinner and said, "I thought crazy cat ladies were older and had dementia. I didn't realize it was the literal kind of crazy. Huh."