I agree. They're holding the key already. What more do they want? Nobody held the hands of women through our process. We had to do it while actively being drowned. Still do.

Men have to do this work themselves. The answers are obvious. The path has been blazed by those who walked before. But nobody can walk it for someone else and you can't expect to be carried the whole way, especially while kicking and screaming. Your dusty ass will be left by the side of the trail in favor of those who want to get to the destination of being a a fully actualized human being.