I agree that women need to change how they view themselves, men, and relationships in conjunction with asking men to change.

But I recognize it’s more nuanced than just straight expectations over money and family economy. Those things in and if themselves do not describe value of human beings.

Like with men, we cannot force someone to change, even other women, who do not want to. We can only lay out our case and hope for the best and then decide how were going to live within the dynamic everyone has equal share in.