Honestly, a lot of the sexual shame rape survivors feel lands directly at the feel of religion. If religion didn't place souch emphasis on sexual purity we would never think we had been 'spoiled' after being taken advantage of and assaulted. We would focus appropriately on how a crime had been enacted upon us, right from the start. There woujldnt be any of this confusion or haziness about what happened. Because we would have had the proper context for what we experienced all along.