Hmm. That's telling.
Why are you doomed? Why do you hsbe to stay with those men any more than we should have to?
Male dolphins and whales pretty much stay in pairs or triples, not large groups.
Why do you assume only the most violent and aggressive ones would remain? That's not how it works out for dolphins and whales for rather obvious reasons.
With women out of the picture, so to speak, the most violent will be the abandoned and isolated ones. Then, the rest of you can work on those collaboration and communal skills you've been ignoring and be ablento bring them down.
Just like with dolphins and whales.
Or, they'll self destruct.
You're still placing the responsibility and outcome of men's behavior on women.
That's why all you "nice guys" who just want live, empathy, and compassion are not the men you think you are.