Hey Gladys.

You seem like you don't understand that the words hurt and angry aren't dependent on each other or that intensity doesn't equal either one.

I might be annoyed that some Random Barney, let's call him Lennert, was being a dufus and had the nerve to get up in my grill with his foolishness; I might choose to respond with an intense energy enough that he won't be stupid enough to disturb my peace with his nonsense again. That doesn't mean I'm angry or that he hurt me. It means flies get swatted.

Like any other nosy busybody, you also seem to have problems keeping up because your question doesn't make any sense relative to the discussion at hand. You're also making assumptions based on those same double standards.

Still not interested in those double standards. Good day Mrs. Kravitz.