Here's the thing though. Men ate asking these women out based on the facade of mainstream sexual allure as promoted by marketing propaganda. Those women aren't asking men out and even if they did, the men could say no because those women don't meet their professed standards.

There's your equality. It's not in demanding women all be the same or cater your men's butt hurt feels.

It's in men showing some discretion in dating and choosing to value their reproductive potential and sexual experience instead of trying to bang every pretty girl that walks by to impress other men.

It's not about who's in who's league. It's about whether or not you want the same things from your engagements with each other, whether that's a relationship or nor a night together.

Men need to figure out what they really want and then go get their match, honorably and with integrity. There are men who want a traditional woman. Okay, there are traditional women available. They're going to expect you to be a traditional man, so then be that. There are men who want a demure, submissive woman. Okay, there are demure and submissive women, so only date that and leave independently women alone.

This problem men have has an easy fix. A super easy fix. And it's the men who have the agency to make it.

R H, you are mollycoddling aggrieved men with this article.