HA! Dude, you're so bitter. That may or may not be true for you, but you do not represent ALL men.

So let's cut the crap.

A lot of men are cowards. They see women as a means to an end. They lie, they cheat, and they steal. They get violent. They play games and then they gaslight you. They're drunk or high all the time or spend all their time playing computer games. They constantly throw money and effort after foolishness. All the while, the woman is the one desperately trying to hold everything together. All while he's drowning the family with his avarice and neglect.

And hear me right here. Hear me well. The problem is not that he is male. He's no devil and she's no saint. There aren't heroes and villains here. There's just people.

You're gaslighting to ease your own pain. That's not going to fly my man.