Good point. People also don't like unnecessary truth. Jared mentioned that no son asks his father how he is most disappointing to him and no wife asks her husband if she's the most sexually appealing woman he's ever met.

Those things don't matter. If your father is disappointed in you, that's his problem.

Sexual attractiveness is one part of marriage. One. It's not even the most important part. If that's all you can think about, you're not showing up for your marriage in healthy and consistent ways.

Really liked your comment here. Good thoughts. Well articulated.