Good Lord.

Appreciation does not equal lust my guy.

Women check men out all the damn time. Men never notice.

We noticed each other doing it. Sometimes we even agree or disagree or acknowledge each other checking out the same guy across the room.

Men never notice that either.

Why?

Because THAT'S appreciation, not lust.

Men's lustful looks is about them, it's not about the women. You're using the women, reducing them down to objects to display your sexual prowess and act entitled to FOR OTHER MEN mostly, but also to make the woman uncomfortable. Deliberately.

If it was about appreciation, you would just appreciate without making a damn spectacle about it.

And yes. I want that world. Absolutely. It would be transformative to not be objectified by men and to be seen and treated like a human being.

Take your own advice and think. At least crack open a dictionary once in a while. Make sure words mean what you think they mean.