Gonna disagree with you here, Ben, but probably not for the reasons you think.
What you said doesn't contradict what I said. It's based in perception and how those men define "loving relationship".
Pulling from the horse's mouth, they want a woman who's "respectful, submits, know how to take care of her man, lets him lead her, loyal, feminine, and isn't trying to be a man."
If this is how you define a "loving relationship", then yeah, you're in for a world of hurt because you're in love with a blow up doll who does your dishes too.
Loving relationships generally have 10 check boxes to them. Respect, trust, communication, support, feeling supported, enjoy each other's company, kindness, commitment, and being able to make decisions together.
Now, your guy may think he wabts a loving relationship but he's clearly got a vocabulary problem as well as being delusional.
What he wants is a fuckmaid, not a loving relationship.