First off, replacement rate is not the same as growth rate.

Replacement rate actually does zero out.

Secondly, reducing the population is not a bad thing. We don't live in a land of unlimited resources. When poverty grows, it makes sense to reduce the population so there's more to go around.

Thirdly, I think you'll find women are no longer willing to hold society together while simultaneously being abused by said society. Men rang the bell a long time ago. Offering state sponsored child care at this point will not stop the collapse.

We know how valuable our labor is. It's time the rest of the selfish fucks stop trying to shame women for not wanting to birth the next generation of workers for them to exploit and fucking figure it out.