Feminists didn't hatch out of an egg. As it turns out, we all have multiple men in our lives so your argument here doesn't even reach the threshold of reasonable logic. It's just bigoted.

Feminists tend to have longer, happier marriages or partnerships compared to more patriarchal arrangements. Their men are far happier too. They're less isolated and they're pleasant to be around.

Feminists just recognize that it should be a choice. Not everyone will thrive in partnership or their life's companion need not be a romantic partner. Some people are better off with it being something else.