Except that what I was talking about IS being authentic. Focusing on and highlighting the best things you love about yourself is not pretending to be something you're not. It's taking pride in who you are. It's not playing games with people's hearts or manipulating them to get what you want. It's learning to shine as yourself and opening up to the serendipity of attraction.

Again, if men are incapable of understanding the difference, the very obvious difference there, and want to play games instead and date with a predatory and abusive strategies...then you've for nothing for most of us.