Excellent points. Though to be fair, I still reserve the right to trounce all over the stupid opinions of some of these men if they keep throwing them in my face and in my space.

There's a difference between not caring about mens', opinions and preferences and having them hurled at you unnecessarily.

I have preferences to, we all do. But I don't roll up in a gym full of guys pumping iron and proclaim loudly for all to hear that I find roided up sculpting to be disgusting and go men with lean muscles are so much sexier than anything they have to offer.

I also don't hunt down every man with a man bun and chastise him for depriving me of the pleasurable view of their long hair.

Why? Because it's rude and it's not my business. And there are plenty of women who are attracted to those things. And finally because my ego is not so fragile and shallow that I feel the need to go about my day making unnecessary hits on random strangers' self esteem just to make myself feel better. Or feel seen?

I guess all that is a separate issue but it's tied. Everytime soon guy says, "why can't I have a preference?", the follow-up question is "why does everybody else have to know about your preference and care?"

Not many people know what my preferences in the opposite sex are. Know why? It's not their business or their problem. It's mine.

People need to stop over sharing about personal asthetics across the board. At least the way they've been doing it.