Exactly, plus you know that once the babies come, you're going to be limited. You want to have your fun when your young and let's face it, you're under heavy scrutiny when you're young. But I'd you're with a guy, even a "bad boy", well then, you've got somebody to "look after you" even if the reality is more likely the other way around, you're still less likely to get the barrage of societal flak because you're "out of control".