Exactly. Nearly every single mom in my pod group had to deal with some level of this; most of them it was multi-faceted. Anything those men could do to jerk their exes around. Anything.

None of the single dads in my pod group did. Not a one. Exceot for the deadbeat mom who was a completely absentee drug addict, the moms were present, consistent, paid their support and picked the kids up on time, and pitched in whereever and however they could. Really worked on communication, etc.