Exactly. I developed this further in the follow up, Let's Talk About Love.

But I think we feminists need to address the issue that the men folk cannot grasp the nuance and are super quick to misconstrue those expressuons of heartbreak from being an opressed class (othered) as being hateful in the rage and violence sense. Because that's where they go with "hate".

Even if you don't want to engage, I hope you'll follow the dialogue. Enjoyed your last. Cheers!