Exactly. He seems like a guy who has to be managed to keep him out of trouble. He seems like he might be a lot of work.
You're right about posting the video. It would be humiliating and he doesn't deserve that just because he might be a trainwreck. Or just not know where he's at and what he's doing.
The flip side of that women are being forced into lositions of explaining themselves because we're being villified by the manosohere for rejecting men.
We aren't believed when we talk or write about it.
Video is evidence.