Exactly. Given their behavior at work in other areas I'd say dear husband did nothing toward the operation of the house and care of the kids but I don't know that as fact. These were good 'ol boys. Used to being carried. Thought getting the winning touch down 20/30 years ago justified slacking off for the rest of their lives. You've clearly met the type as well.
These guys are a supervisors worst nightmare. Always finding ways to sneak off to the water cooler and slack off work. Always undermining. Always finding cheats to the keep from doing a decent thorough job. Always hanging around the newest, prettiest, youngest girl.
So no, not really anything worth being inspired over and probably too tired to care anymore anyway.
Apparently plenty of inspiration, time, and energy after the divorce though..
Hope she didn't mess tht up by getting married to another loser high school had been again.