Exactly. Anti-feminist.men and tone policers make men look bad, weak and fragile.

It's really not a good look.

I have a litmus test on this shit. I imagine the look on my Dad's face if somebody said that in front of him. He and Urchling have that in common, there are entire dissertations and committee meetings in their facial expressions but it takes an act of Congress to get them to say two words some days.

Ultimately, all the time policing is an insult to men. It tracks this.

Witness the weirdness of being a woman on the receiving end, usually at the hand of a man who claims to be protecting men and being offended by it mostly on behalf of decent men. I still haven't figured out what to do with that. It's weird.