Especially since so many families today are blended families. Slighting her for being a Step does the same to millions (?) of American men who have married women with children and raised them as their own too.
You CANNOT shame and denigrate women in any way without it being a reflection on MEN too.
This gender essentialist bullahit and tropes need to end. It's way past time.
I wish him the best and look forward to seeing him in the role of First Gentleman.