Dude. If I am to the point of "washing my hands of men", I’m not looking to make friends with them or convince them of the error of their ways. I also clearly do not find your company to be a must have; more than happy with the company (which includes men who equally participate in relationships btw — my best friend is male) I’ve got.

I don’t want the work or the drama that comes with this kind of guy. I’m not alone. Some of my cohort who actively avoid dudes like this at male. Y’all are a hot mess and you need to clean yourselves up, not come whining to women to do it for you.

Any response from me is nothing more or less than a push back to miss me with your bs an leave me and my kind the hell alone.