Drop the ego and entitlement for one. You men are not owed or entitled to women's bodies or attention.

Do the work for another. It's not vulnerability to cry about a problem, blame a group who did not create that problem for you and is also hurting from the source of your pain, and then demand they 'fix' the problem but what you really mean is not correct or ene the source of the pain but make it more tolerable to live with.

It's also more men mocking lonely men than women. On the whole, women do not refer to men as betas, a term you brought up in another comment. But men do, trying to flex their "alpha masculinity". Most women recognize that the whole ideology is a bullshit con. But you blamed women for this particular mockery and laid it at the feet of women to fix.

There is a particular kind of woman who would use that term, so I'm not saying it absolutely never happens. I'm saying if you hear that from a woman, that woman is a pickmeisha, a con artist grifter, or a fraud. She's looking to take advantage of desperate men and should be treated accordingly. But she's no where near the majority of women and unlike "lonely but decent men", decent women DO NOT use the language of the group (TradWives and sugar babies/gold diggers) that are actively working against them and giving men a reason to be suspicious.

That would solve a lot of these men's problems right there. Talking about their loneliness outside the rhetoric of Incel cultists and alpha ideologues. If you continually lump yourselves together in your language and talking points with those who have made no bones about wanting women harmed and murdered, you can hardly blame women for failing to discern you to be different. Cleave yourselves off from these radical men in your discourse and your intent. Make the effort to set yourselves apart. I think you'll find the responses you get will change. Do the work. Don't be lazy.