Don't we all? If feminism and feminist ideas were easy, it would be done by now.

Again, that center.

In the end, protecting the center for stability at all costs means you WILL be paying all those costs just to struggle keeping stability on increasingly slippery ground. And if you're not paying, someone else will be.

This is the inherent nature of a dominator model of social organization. Far too much goes to status and wealth and everyone else is always fighting over scraps. It will always return to that.

Feeding the laziness of the center is a losing strategy. It just doesn't work.