Don't take this in a weird way, but you wanted to be women.
This is an essential component of womanhood. Everyone else, men's AND women constantly telling you how you're doing it wrong and throwing up new hoops for you to jump through or hursles for you to jump over.
This is, arguably, in the top 3 things of what it means to be a woman. You're never enough. Ever.
Did you honestly think it was all about hair, makeup, pretty clothes, and being fabulous?
Welcome to the "sisterhood".