Don't know what you mean about household appliances as there are many different peoducts to choose from. You can buy ones to suit you. If you're talking about standard height, it's not like you're barred from building them on a shelf so they're up higher to suit you either.

It's also not like education can't be and isn't being tailored to help kids with difficulties. Nobody is foecing kids with no arms to take written exams just because that's what all the other kids do, for example. Likewise, kids who cannot speak are not required to give oral reports and presentations. I used to get buddied up with the kids who had dyslexia or other barriers to reading so they got extra help and didn't get held back because of it. That didn't hurt me and it didn't hurt them, although neither one of was doing what all the other kids were doing.

Sometimes you have to get out of the way and do what works, not what's standard. And definitely don't make a moral issue or raise an unnecessary stink about it.