Doesnt work just like that for women either. The majority of my age cohoert are on antidepressants to get through their day. Our rates of suicide would be so much higher if we weren't seeking help. We women are already making attempts more often than men. And that's with help. Other forms of self harm are rampant and rising. It is not uncommon to run across young women with cutting scars or eating disorders; addictions are rising again.
Nobody listens to them. Nobody even notices. It doesn't matter that even with more women seeking help, they're still making attempts more often than men because women are just hysterical. Trying to get attention. *Wink* you know how women are.
Radicalized young men are going to be drawn to murder suicide actions whether they're lonely, listened to, or whatever. That's what it is to be radicalized. It would.be more worthwhile and more effective to concentrate efforts on preventing men from radicalizing in the first place. That won't happen by listening to them repeat grievances they heard from podcast bros on the internet that they never experienced, but by challenging the dating market bullshit propaganda and fortifying their minds against it.
If you think you can't get a date because of 6-6-6 and sontheredore must hate women and promote violence toward them when walking outside your house and looking around would PROVE to you differently, that is not a problem with you not being listened to, that is a problem with you living outside reality in your own little delusional grievance world.
Talk to or examine the content of these men long enough and you find time and time again they are not being rejected, they never actually tried. Or, they tried, got a date but that didn't go anywhere (didn't automatically turn into sex) so they showed their ass and got ditched. Or, they "tried", but it was all pick up bullshit that dehumanized the women they targeted so they got rejected.
This isn't a problem for women to fix. This is a problem for men to address.
Maybe instead of admonishing women to listen to these men, you men could stop being so self absorbed and listen to them yourselves. And not just superficially. Listen to them like we already have. See for yourselves.
