Ditto about the pets. It's uncomplicated. And also completely unfettered. It just is...the emotion.

I hear women talk about this ability they have that men dont. I don't share it. I have friends. Close ones. But I've never felt free to be vulnerable that way. I'm always everyones rock. The one that helps them sort their shit out and confide in. But I've never had anyone be that for me. Every time I've trusted someone.eith that, I've been betrayed.

It is what it is.