Disagree. In this case, paternalism informs the hypothetical.

It speaks to the nature of why some men are feeling really hurt by the choice of bear.

Theyre not all just trying to be insufferable douchebags. They're not all manbabies whinging about their widdle feelpinions.

To assume that's the case is reductive and derails the conversation too.

If we're not foinf to xome to some.level.of understanding for those capable, what's the point.